May 28, 2023

5 Performance Tips to Overcome Stage Fright

By James Thompson, Performance Coach

Even the most technically proficient singers can struggle with performance anxiety. The good news? Stage fright is both normal and manageable. These practical strategies will help you transform nervous energy into compelling performances.

1. Reframe Your Nerves as Excitement

Physiologically, anxiety and excitement produce very similar physical responses: increased heart rate, heightened awareness, and a surge of adrenaline. The key difference is how we interpret these sensations.

Next time you feel performance anxiety building, try this simple but powerful linguistic shift: Instead of telling yourself "I'm so nervous," say (out loud if possible) "I'm excited to share my voice." This small change can significantly alter your mindset and physical response.

Try This:

Before your next performance, take three deep breaths and repeat three times: "I'm excited to perform. This energy is helping me prepare."

2. Develop a Pre-Performance Routine

Professional athletes, public speakers, and performers of all kinds use consistent pre-performance routines to create a sense of familiarity and control, even in high-pressure situations.

Your routine might include:

  • A specific vocal warm-up sequence
  • Physical movement to release tension (gentle stretching, jumping jacks, etc.)
  • A few minutes of controlled breathing or meditation
  • Listening to music that energizes or calms you
  • A positive affirmation or visualization practice

The content of your routine matters less than its consistency. By following the same steps before every performance, you create a sense of normalcy that helps calm your nervous system.

3. Preparation Builds Confidence

While it may seem obvious, thorough preparation is still the most effective antidote to performance anxiety. When you know your material inside and out, your mind has fewer opportunities to introduce doubt.

Effective preparation includes:

  • Over-learning your material: Practice until you could sing your pieces half-asleep or under stress.
  • Rehearsing in performance-like conditions: Practice in the clothes you'll wear, with the backing tracks or accompaniment you'll use, standing as you would on stage.
  • Mental rehearsal: Visualize the entire performance experience, from walking on stage to receiving applause.
  • Preparing for contingencies: What will you do if you forget a lyric, if the accompaniment starts in the wrong key, or if technical difficulties arise?

The goal isn't to achieve "perfect" performances in practice, but to build such solid fundamentals that you can navigate challenges with confidence.

4. Focus on Connection, Not Perfection

Many performers struggle with anxiety because they're aiming for flawless technical execution. This perfectionistic mindset creates enormous pressure and often leads to self-criticism that undermines performance.

Instead, shift your goal from "singing perfectly" to "connecting authentically":

  • Before performing, remind yourself why you chose this song and what it means to you
  • Identify 2-3 audience members to sing directly to during your performance
  • Focus on communicating the emotion and story of your song
  • Remember that audiences respond more to authentic expression than to technical perfection

When you focus on connection, technical mistakes become less significant, and paradoxically, you often perform better because you're more relaxed and present.

5. Gradual Exposure: Build Your Performance Muscles

Like any skill, performance confidence develops through practice. Instead of jumping straight to high-pressure situations, create a ladder of increasingly challenging performance opportunities:

  1. Sing for a supportive friend or family member
  2. Perform in a small group class or workshop setting
  3. Participate in an open mic night or casual performance opportunity
  4. Take a small role in a group show or recital
  5. Work up to solo performances or auditions

Each positive performance experience builds your confidence for the next level. Even when performances don't go as planned, treating them as learning experiences rather than failures helps build resilience.

The Science Behind Performance Anxiety

Understanding what's happening in your body can help you manage stage fright more effectively. Performance anxiety triggers your body's "fight or flight" response, releasing adrenaline and cortisol. These hormones can:

  • Increase your heart rate and breathing
  • Cause muscle tension (particularly in the throat and chest)
  • Create digestive discomfort ("butterflies")
  • Induce sweating or trembling
  • Narrow your focus (sometimes making it hard to remember lyrics)

While these responses can feel alarming, they're your body's natural preparation for an important event. With practice, you can learn to use this energy to enhance your performance rather than letting it derail you.

Remember that even the most accomplished performers experience stage fright. The difference is not in the absence of nerves, but in how they manage them. By implementing these strategies consistently, you can transform performance anxiety from an obstacle into an opportunity for deeper expression and connection.

At Accreovato, our Performance Workshops provide a supportive environment to develop these skills with expert guidance. If you're ready to take your performance confidence to the next level, we're here to help you on that journey.

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